Missionary position in the absence of consent is not sex, it’s rape a gangbang with consent is not rape, it’s sex. Critics say it refers to a non-consensual sex act. In the mountain climbing community there is a backlash against a route at a particular climbing site that’s named Gangbang. But I got this week’s column done with the help of my followers on Instagram. So, my laptop is dead, my phone is broken, and my thumbs are bloodied.
I wrote my responses on my phone… which I dropped at one point, shattering the screen, BECAUSE OF COURSE I DID. So, I put out an SOS on Instagram, asking my followers there to send me their quick-and-dirty questions. So, I wasn’t able to access my Savage Love email – which is a problem, since no questions means no column.
My laptop lost its will to live when I was thousands of miles away, in a country where I don’t speak the language. My laptop couldn’t die when I was in the office, with capable tech support people close by.